Ira and Advait

Vol. I · No. 1₹ Priceless

Sheesh Mahal

— The Gazette of Ira & Advait —

You're invited

Ira & Advait

12–21 February 2027 · Jaipur

p. 03Court Circular

Court Circular

Jaipur · Issued by the families Chaturvedi & Shekhawat

॥ श्री गणेशाय नमः ॥

Smt. Madhavi & Shri Alok Chaturvedi request the pleasure of your company at the wedding of their daughter Ira, granddaughter of Smt. Sushila Chaturvedi, to Advait, son of Smt. Rajshree Kanwar & Col. (Retd.) Vikram Singh Shekhawat, Jaipur. The ceremonies will be held at the Sheesh Kiran Palace, on the Amer Road, on the twelfth and thirteenth of February, and the couple will take the seven rounds of the fire at godhuli, as the sun goes down over the Kamal Kund. A dawat follows in Lucknow on the twenty-first.

A palace in daylight, two families, and the moment the sun goes down on 13 February. We would be honoured to have you there.

By special invitation

Our guests

Your personal invitation, with your functions, is in your WhatsApp message.

p. 04The Feature

Exclusive · as told to the Gazette

The clap heard across Jaipur

She dances Kathak. He flies planes. Their paths kept crossing until they became one line. We each tell it a little differently.

◎ Taal — Ira✈ Flight — Advait

Chapter I · Dec 2021

The clap

◎ Ira

“Someone clapped in the middle of my tatkaar. The whole hall turned around. I didn't.”

✈ Advait

“My mother dragged me to a Kathak evening. I clapped at the wrong moment. Apparently.”

Chapter II · Dec 2021

On the sam

◎ Ira

“He'd clapped exactly on the sam. By accident, but on the beat. I told him so after the show.”

✈ Advait

“I pretended I knew what a sam was. I Googled it in the car park.”

Chapter III · 2022–2024

Layovers

◎ Ira

“He started scheduling layovers in Lucknow. Lucknow isn't on the way to anywhere.”

✈ Advait

“Delhi–Lucknow is 55 minutes. I learned every cloud on the route.”

Chapter IV · Mar 2025

Meeting Dadisa

◎ Ira

“She asked if I could cook dal baati. I said I could dance. She laughed for two minutes.”

✈ Advait

“Dadisa approved in Marwari. Ira nodded. Neither understood the other. Perfect.”

Chapter V · Nov 2025

The proposal

◎ Ira

“Back on the stage where we met, he did teentaal tatkaar. Badly. For six months he'd practised in hotel rooms.”

✈ Advait

“16 beats, 1 ring. I landed on the sam.”

“16 beats, 1 ring. I landed on the sam.”

Chapter VI · Apr 2026

Roka

◎ Ira

“Two families, three cuisines, and my Dadi and his Dadisa holding hands.”

✈ Advait

“Papa saluted Ira's father. Ira's father bowed. They've been doing that ever since.”

p. 08Fashion

The Safa Edit

Lehariya, tied by hand at 3:00 PM on the thirteenth: forty safas an hour, one for every man on the groom's side. 65 picked so far. Four colours. Choose wisely; Dadisa is watching.

Advait in a Kesariya safa
Look I · 26 headsKesariya
Advait in a Rani pink safa
Look II · 16 headsRani pink
Advait in a Peacock teal safa
Look III · 15 headsPeacock teal
Advait in a Ivory (elders) safa
Look IV · 8 headsIvory (elders)

The safa bar is the groom's side's. Everyone else: admire.

p. 10Travel

A Guide to Jaipur

By Capt. Advait Singh Shekhawat, who has flown over it 212 times

You will land at Jaipur International (JAI), 24 km, about 50 minutes to the palace. Tell us your flight in your reply card and someone will be waiting.

  1. I.Amer Fort at sunrise, before the crowds
  2. II.Pyaaz kachori for breakfast (Advait insists)
  3. III.Lehariya and bandhani in Johari Bazaar
  4. IV.Sunset at Nahargarh
  5. V.In Lucknow: galouti in Aminabad, chikankari in Chowk, makhan malai (only in winter, only in the morning)

p. 13Correspondence

Letters to the Editor

₹ 13 · II

Sir, — Jiju, the roast is ready. Three languages, as promised.

Ishaan

Sir, — 108 chakkars and she still found time to fall for a pilot. Mubarak ho, both of you!

Nargis

Sir, — Advait, you finally landed on the sam. Congratulations, Captain. We'll be in the front row.

Meera

Sir, — Ira beta, from tiny ghungroos to this. London is packing three suitcases of shawls. So proud of you both!

Anjali Masi

Write to the editor →

p. 14Diversions

The Puzzle Page

Eight questions on the couple; a prize for the family member who scores highest. Then vote the Mehfil playlist up the charts.

Couple quiz

How well do you know Ira & Advait?

8 questions · 15 seconds each · family leaderboard

Live

The Sangeet playlist

  1. 👑Chaap Tilak13 votes · Devika
  2. 2Mohe Rang Do Laal11 votes · Ishaan
  3. 3Kesariya Balam7 votes · Devika
  4. 4Dheere Dheere Se5 votes · Ishaan
  5. 5Kajra Re4 votes · Ishaan
  6. 6Nagada Sang Dhol2 votes · Devika
  7. 7Ghoomar1 vote · Ishaan
  8. 8Padharo Mhare Des (for Dadisa)1 vote · Devika

p. 15Reply card

R.S.V.P.

Kindly reply by Wed, 20 Jan

Your personal invitation, with your functions, is in your WhatsApp message.

p. 16Etiquette

Court Etiquette

I
What should I wear?
Every function has its own colours: open the palace map for swatches and outfit ideas. Daytime is bright, evenings are cool, so bring a shawl.
II
I'm on the groom's side. Do I need my own safa?
No: pick a colour and size in the safa bar and we'll have it ready. Tying starts at 3:00 PM on 13 Feb.
III
Why are the pheras at 6:00 PM?
They're at godhuli, the auspicious minutes as the sun goes down. Sunset that day is at 6:18 PM, so please be on the terrace by 5:45.
IV
Can I bring my children?
Of course. Your invitation lists everyone we've counted in your family; add the kids when you RSVP.
V
How do I get from the airport?
If we've arranged your pickup, your driver, car and time are on your invitation. Otherwise tell us your flight in the RSVP.
VI
Who do I call if I'm lost?
Ishaan (Ira's brother) on +91 98110 44521, or Devika (Advait's sister) on +91 98290 11873.

Back cover · #IRAdvait

See you at godhuli.

With the blessings of Smt. Sushila Chaturvedi and Smt. Kesar Kanwar

With best compliments from the Chaturvedi and Shekhawat families

Thank you for walking through the gate with us. — Ira & Advait